My wife paddles me the same way, (except we're both usually naked). Now, it's Pavlovian, I stand at attention, whenever I see her sitting there, beckoning me to come over to her, as she strips me, puts me over her knee & starts my spanking. I can't cum now, without 1st getting a spanking.
On our first meeting after we divorced my x-wife agreed to be my FEMDOM Mistress. We decided to break the ice for J to come to my place and give me a bare bottom spanking. We were excited to meet again but J played the part took me over her knees and gave me an unforgettable spanking marking my ass black and blue from just her bare hand.